I try so hard not to think he now has this perfect life and the kids and I are struggling. He just says things like Lisa you don't understand it's so easy to talk with her and we share our dreams and she is so laid back and fun. She is an it is what it is kinda girl. Then he starts with the you are always stressed and need things planned and we never go out partying. Well H we have 6 kids and a home I have to run. She is 25 and getting a divorce and has two kids 5 and 3 which se puts in school and daycare . She drinks and smokes and I don't but he says she all of a sudden quit drinking except with meals. She left her husband for mine and they moved right in . My kids tell me when they are around her that she hangs on dad and giggles and laughs. Yeah I am a little jealous I can't want this man back he has left is for so many women and I always let him come back. This time he says he has found the one and is gone for good.
Me:37 H:38 6 kids first bomb 8/05 (ow involved) piecing 7/06 second bomb 3/07 ow involved wash rinse repeat.... huge move to start over 2/11 more affairs H left for good 8/12
