So I was suppose to go visit my Mom for Thanksgiving alone (because well I wanted too). I told my W and she suprise me by saying she would like to go with the kids. I could of been stubborn but I figure why not but i typically don't bring new girls to visit my family that early...haha
So she is coming along, at first i was like, i wonder if she felt weird with my family (my mom knows) but then i said "who cares, she asked to go" but i think the thinksgiving will turn out well.
At this point, I am still on the path of being nice, respectful and giving her space/time she needs. Most of all, I am showing my DB, GAL and 180 are all in full effect. I know everytime I am happy with my life, 3 kids, dates, and family events, I am introducing a world where she can join again.
I don't know if she will truly re-join and develop a new R but I do know this, I am having fun, less stress, more sleep
