Can This Be Salvaged?

[leopoldstotch]

Its very possible and that was a double post sorry. My W got started on all over a mat that I left outside. I drywalled and spackled the foyer so I put the mat outside to clean and forgot about it. She came home from volleyball and said " you left the mat outside and cats are going to urinate on it go get NOW!"

So instead of jumping up and running to her command I sat there. So she went outside and got it herself and on the way by me is when she started the insults. Now I was going to get the mat but I wasnt going to just jump up because she ordered me too. Typically it used to be things like that that would set off a huge fight because the way she talks like would get me going. All I wanted for her to do was ask me to get the mat. I didn't get angry at all just sat there in disbelief that something so minor set her off about me not wanting to work its my fault I'm laid off etc.

In all the years we've been together I don't ever remember ordering her around like that. Makes me think she thinks I'm her doormat.