My younger son identifies with his Dad a lot. He has some anger at me because H moved out and it's been rocky for us but is getting better. He also had some depression not long after the b/u.

I've shed many a tear about how this has affected my sons, and they're older.

My advice would be to love him, let him know it. Be willing to let him talk without trying to fix, or judge. Assure him that no one thinks he's crazy, that this is difficult for everyone.

This is hard stuff.


Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss