So why no R conversation? I'd at least know once and for all what direction to take my life.
This is your answer why my friend...
Because you are asking HER to decide the direction in YOUR life.
You don't need an R conversation to move forward... just do it.
Stop talking about stopping the cake-eating.. stop it.
Create that healthy life for you and your children.
What is stopping you? The fear that if you do, she might not come after you?
Well at least you would know where you stood then... AND be creating a GOOD life at the same time.
I'm not going to say it's not scary It is.
I'm not saying it doesn't come with out risk. It's risky
And I definitely won't lie and say it won't hurt like hell to move forward and your wife decide not to move forward with you (should she chose to).. It does
... but it's certainly better than limbo....
... which if you truly want out of it... you have the power to do it. And you definitely have the strength to...
.. but the question is... is your heart ready to move on?
((( )))
M(f): 40 D'ed: 8/12
Show empathy when there's pain. Show grace when warranted. Kindness in the midst of anger. Faith in the face of fear.
