So S14 just had a major meltdown. He got into it with his gf (who isolates him and I have been encouraging him to talk to others), then his phone just went to pot, and finally his sister started on him. It is not good. Of course, it is his dad that is bothering him. He was saying everyone leaves. Look at him- even my dad left. Then the anger at me again that I can't make him come back. I think at this point he blames me for him being gone. Definitely I was part of the problem but this seems to be more than that. It could be that I am just the only one here for him to take it out on. He hit the wall twice. At that point I told him if he hit the wall again there would be consequences. He did finally calm down but it was also after he basically picked a fight with D12. He also cussed at her. Then of course, she went into meltdown mode. Fortunately both D11 were already asleep.
He finally sat on the couch and basically went to sleep within minutes. I think he wore himself out.
I feel so helpless and H is an I don't even know what. It's bad enough he made me feel like this but our kids too? I'm so disgusted with him. Not even mad. The only justice there could possibly be in the universe for neglecting kids should be karma coming back 10 fold. I swear. WTH is he thinking???? How do you just walk out on them? Sigh. S14 said when I told him yes his dad loves him. He said but not more than he loves himself. He doesn't love anyone more than that.
S14 is already going to IC and of course the girls go too. Sometimes they do a group session sometimes alone. He did say too- Now you are going to tell IC about this and everyone will treat me like I'm crazy.
