Your H is responsible for his own feelings. IF he feels you threw him under the bus.. that's because he is not ready to deal with the consequences of his actions.. or his truths.
That's on him and you shouldn't worry about protecting him from it. That's not loving..
Nor at the same time should you worry about him hating you. Try not to give him a reason but understand that because there are such crazy emotions for both the LBS and the WAS.. hatred/anger can almost always be found.
My mistaken belief that I'm responsible for everyone's feelings can sometimes push me right back on the rollercoaster.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
