SweetBriar, you are a valuable person & deserve to be treated like a little pregnant queen right now. YOu are amazingly STRONG.
I believe he is being mean to you b/c his guilt & knowledge of wrong-doing MAKES him act this way so his actions can be validated....if you are "the bad guy" then it makes it okay for him to treat you like crap. Therefore, he feels it is the only way that will allow him to continue this A w OW & it be okay.
Hang in there. Lots of hugs!!!!
M- 18 T-21 S-14,11 & 10 BD 6-18-2012 (OW-EA) H moved out 11-3-2012 10-5-13 Me- I want a divorce. I want to move on w my life. 11-25-13 Jointly filed.