DO NOT HAVE A RELATIONSHIP CONVERSATION WITH HER.

Things are heading in the right direction.

Hell is worse then limbo. Please seriously don't do it. Her answer will be to continue to valid the direction she is headed.

Call a DB coach and have them talk you out of this nonsense.

Continue doing what ever you feel like doing don't let her expectations effect your decision to clean up the house. Assume she will never ever get back together.

Seriously 2tp I love you, don't do it

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M 39
H 35
D5,D4
M 4
T 9
ILYBNILWY 5/18/11
Left 7/11/11
Divorced 12/1/13