My Advice from the DB counselor was to not initiate contact, but If i did see or speak to her have it be as pleasant of a experience as possible. Move on with my life and show her what she is missing.
I have not read anything about detachment yet but im guessing I need to do that at some point.
As for me I have joined a gym and increased my time hanging out with friends and family. I nearly stopped talking about my relationship problems with my friends and save that for a few specific members of my family. I cannot do a whole lot becasue I am basically responsible for the entire move. She is serisouly neglecting any type of responsilbity in this area.
The move did not go great. She took things that we did not agree on that she should take. It was very obvious that she was trying to cause some harm and I am not sure why. She continues to blow off helping me even when she suggest to do so.
I am just really confused. There really seems to be two versions of my wife.
