Hi Angel61, long time no hear from. I don't even know where your thread is anymore, MLC still? How's piecing coming. Hope it's all working out or at least heading in a good direction.
Yeah, I'm in limbo land. It's tough, but for my S13 I'll walk through hot coals. I've pretty much given up on reconcilliation. Just waiting now for the next stage in the D. I didn't make her move out when D18 graduated HS; send the 2x4's I understand. Sounds stupid I know.
That day will come, and at our age you know how time flies, we'll do what divorced people do soon enough, which is really part company. I'm fine where I'm at, bigger fish to fry with this lousy economy and the job and all. So I am sort of moving on as best as circumstances allow.
You can probably tell 'cause I don't post very often or even read the sitches much. I can't really offer much to people struggling to hold it together here. All I can say is once the emotional upheaval simmers down, D is not the end of the world, and for me it's been a sort of liberation.
The close proximity of XW is a challenge though, as you can tell from my last posts, but in my judgment the best thing for S13 for the time being, so I'm up to the task. Moving forward.
Love, Pic.
Me 53 XW 50 M 18 Years +2 S14 D19 Bomb 10-24-10 Served 1-27-11 Mediate 4-21-11 Civil D Final 6-2-11 No church anullment "A man is not finished when he is defeated, he is finished when he quits."