Hi, I am new to Piecing and could use all the help and advice I can get.
Just to fill you in briefly.
2 1/2 years ago my husband had me served at work with divorce papers. He told me a couple of weeks earlier he wasn't happy but never mentioned he had seen a lawyer. So I was quite surprised. He moved out that night.
In these past 2 1/2 years he has moved in with his work GF. He continued paying all the bills for me and our daughters. But he never moved the divorce forward.
About a month ago he told me he had regrets and made mistakes and he wanted to come back. I was shocked. Last weekend he has moved out of GF's house and he has moved back in with his mom, who lives 5 minutes from our family home. The past 2 nights he has come here after work for dinner and watches some tv with us then goes back to his moms to sleep.
He said he would do counseling and whatever I needed to make this work.
So what should I do ? What should my first step be ? Should I get us into counseling right away or wait and see how the holidays go first ? See if this is something I really want to do ?
Me:43 H:43 T:20 YRS M:15 YRS Bomb: 6/9/08 Bomb#2 7/6/10 Served with papers at work 7/13/10 DD:14, DD:11
