"SBH,I dont get that. Hard line aproach and respect? They dont mix."
Of course they do...
Respect: I WILL NOT TOLLERATE YOU CHEATING ON ME BY CONTINUING TO SEE OM.
Hard line approach: OR I WILL LEAVE!!!
They mix perfectly!!!
"If she didn't realize, then maybe you did not make it knows. As they said, nothing wrong in feelings.
10 Years of MC and she went thru 6 theripists cause none agreed with her. Trust me, I made in known by email, discussion, in counseling, poem, card, notes, and carrier pigion. She knew!
"But one things is that: nobody has an obligation to make someone else happy. That is too much."
No one even remotely stated this. Not even sure where you got this. I agree.
"SBH, I remember you and your exs W were reading the 5 LL's before ....did that not make an impact on you?"
She was incapable of providing even the most basic of needs. I'd ask for a hug. Said let's start with once a month. She couldn't. Deep intimacy issues. Again, Borderliner Personality Disorder... Whole different ball game.
M: 42 - W: 41 - M: 18 - T: 23 - D:16 S:14 EA - July 2010 NC w/EA - Nov 2010 Piecing - Jan 2011 I ask for div - Jan 2012 Div papers filed - Mar 2012 I move out - July 2012 Divorce final - Nov 7, 2012
