25 - trust me I'm "ripe" for change. I've been going through this for 3 months now and I believe I have done a permentent changes. Does she believe it yet... I'm sure she doesn't... It took me years to get in this predicament and I'm sure it will take me awhile to get out of it. I have learned a lot some here some elsewhere through reading which I've done a ton of in the last 3 months.
Where is your GAL list? I tried looking for it but have not had success.
I went to the LRT right away because the first little over 2 months I did a lot of changes and kept them up, but she was still insisting on space which for her was a trial seperation which is where we have been for almost 3 weeks now, switching everyother day staying at our house. It was after we were seperated that I picked up DB. And it was my understanding that if you have a WAW in which you are seperated with you should pretty much start the LRT. But I guess that could be my misinterpretation. But that's why I'm on this forum to get support on what I am doing wrong and right
As far as employment goes I got offered a job today.
M: 25 W:23 M: 4 years T: 10 years S:5 S1 BD: 8/20/12 Sep: 11/12
