Dealing with the reality of separation

[Denver_2010]

But I guess I don't understand what this does besides delay the inevitable.

Inevitable?

Keep thinking that and it WILL be inevitable.

Exactly. We all have the power of self determination. If you don't use that power, the outcome will be determined for you.

For me, I'd rather go down fighting for what I want, rather than just give in.

I'm not trying to convince anyone to do anything other than decide what you want and act accordingly. Not to just let someone decide for you.