Thanks Grateful.

I caught up and read both threads now.

I see so much of myself in your anxiety and fear about our W's whom we have no control over. But, with proper goals and GAL activities, we may be able to influence their choices only in the long term.

It's a marathon, not a sprint.

You start out with small continuous steps to reach the summit.

Yes, i can recite the words, but they still need to be put more into action for progress on ourselves first and then, and only then, maybe progress on our M and R.

Ed


Me, 55 W, 36
T, 10 yrs
S-9
M, 8 yrs
1st D-Day, 9-27-2009, With 1st bf, ea/pa
2nd D-Day, 12-5-2009, With her best friends bf, ea/pa
W, AA relapse early 2009-Current
W moved out 2-16-2012
New OM 5-2012