Vero - yeah, the GAL was very good for me. And that pine forest...well there is pine which smells great, but then there is balsam and that fragrance just blows me away!!!

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2TP, I'm not a big fan of R convos, but if you must I would simply ask her "So what is your thinking regarding the marriage these days? I'm sure we've both had a long time to do some thinking and to make some decisions. I'd be interested to hear what you think."


Starsky - thanks for the advice. It has been over a year with no R conversation. My W has been sending signals though that create some confusion for me. Also, she has been making comments about certain things that imply "we/us" that really need to be clarified in my mind.

I do not intend to be in limbo forever. I feel the need to flush things out one way or the other and this is the only way I see to do it.

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Bomb-9/11; A-11/11; I move out 11/11

It's easy to find our bottom, it is our top that requires cultivation.

Every rough spot adds to our emotional constitution. -Barney Fife