Keep it up, Denver, and don't let other people push you off the path.
Angel, however you feel about the "tougher approach" being advocated by me and SBH and some others, I find the above insulting. No one is trying to "push Denver off his path." We are trying to provide an outside perspective, and perhaps be a "canary in a coal mine" if our own experience can help him avoid a potential pitfall.
As always, he is free to either use or reject the advice, as he sees fit.