Why do you think it's God's plan for you? Just b/c she said that's what she wants?
I am in the same boat. It is hard not to accept that it is God's plan when divorce papers are filed (my case), and we are just waiting for a court opening.
BD: 8/20/2012 W Files: 8/23/2012 S: 8/25/2012 (I moved out) D Final: 3/5/2013