Dealing with the reality of separation

[Denver_2010]

YUP! ^^^

Don't let your W or your L pressure you into doing anything that you are not ready to do.

But I guess I don't understand what this does besides delay the inevitable.

Maybe. Maybe not. The point is that you are not at the mercy of her wishes. You can choose to do what is right for YOU. If you want to go along with the D, then you can decide to do that. If you don't, then don't go along with it. Let her do the heavy lifting.

You are being rushed into a very big thing. Allow yourself some time to reflect on how you want to move forward.