Originally Posted By: MKB23
We will all be better off.
Of course- the biggie - ILYBINILY
We will always have a "connection"
I can't trust you.
Sure I can do that! - Right before they no show on you. lol


Melissa, that's a great start to the handbook.

Ones I've heard from my H:
-I've never felt loved by you
-Our R has never worked
-You've wanted to mold me from Day 1
-Our children will be happier because we will be happier (once separated)
-I've given up trying to get through to you
-I've been too hurt

You really sound as if you're in such a good frame of mind, Melissa. I'm so impressed that you have your finances under control and a plan. I can't believe how different you sound today. Enjoy this more peaceful patch and maybe you can build on it. Hope you sleep better tonight.


Me: 51
H: 52
T: 23 yrs
M: 19 yrs
S18, D16, S14 (special needs)
PA: 2003/2004
Piecing: 2004 on
Suspect H had EA: 8/2012-12/2012