well I sent this text to her " I just talked to MIL...I did not mean for my plans as an affront to you...I just did not want to be there all day and wanted to visit a friend who had no where to go for the holidays..If you saw email to MIL you would have understood better..sorry
I feel so milk toast....going to have to hit the punching bag tonight. On the plus side I think her reaction has helped me detach a little bit more...seeing her put her friends in front of family and children is what she does and I can see that she is not in a strong frame of mine if she is name calling and acting out this way...
