Does she know that your L is going to be gone? If not, then tell her later that you tried to contact your L and got a message saying that he was going to be out the rest of the year. So you'll take care of things when he gets back.
YUP! ^^^
Don't let your W or your L pressure you into doing anything that you are not ready to do.
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce