So sorry Rough. I can't remember if it's Cadet or Jack that says this, but one of them is fond of pointing out that divorce is just a piece of paper. It doesn't really change the sitch much since you've already been separated quite a while. Hope is still there for as long as you care to hold onto it. Best wishes!
THAT ^^^ is absolutely right.
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce