I forgot to add- I find it ironic that he is the cheater but he "can't trust me" Ha!
It is indeed ironic but is extremely common. My W has a coworker whose H was cheating. He was so paranoid that SHE was cheating that he made HER go get tested for STD's! Seriously! And she did it! My jaw hit the floor when I found that out.
OMG!! I would die. Although, I had thought if we ever get even close to reconciling I would ask him to as well.
Ruby if I find the handbook I would be happy to share. Maybe we should jokingly put together a thread. lol
My personal favorite is I have been miserable for 10 years. Nvm the fact that he had left and "begged" to come back around 4 yr ago. lol
Or the typical projecting - You never finish things! lol As I look around at about 10 different unfinished home projects.
lol They are nuts. I have never had "me" time when they have been completely self absorbed. lol
We will all be better off. Of course- the biggie - ILYBINILY We will always have a "connection" I can't trust you. Sure I can do that! - Right before they no show on you. lol