Well Denver, I have to conceed. In the best sense.
It does sound like your W is and has made positive steps toward healing and forgivness.
I wear my emotions on my sleve when it comes to adultry because the pain can cut so deep. I always said that I could never get past an affair. And when tested, I was right. At least for me. That said I know my W never made me feel 100% secure again. Had she, maybe my result would have been different too. Who knows really?
I'm passionate about this because I do care.
I will post my journey from my ex's ea to my final divorce soon. I just got my final divorce decree in the mail today.
Now the hard part for my W. I've removed her from all medical, dental and vision. She's having to work full time for the first time in her life. Long hours. Her car is dying and she's not able to do the vacations and trips she once enjoyed.
For those that cheat I urge you to consider the full consequences of your actions. The fun lasts only as long as the music plays. And as you can see, the music has stopped for my ex. And the "fun" with it!!!
I take no satisfaction in this. Only sadness for her. And in some respects... Myself!
M: 42 - W: 41 - M: 18 - T: 23 - D:16 S:14 EA - July 2010 NC w/EA - Nov 2010 Piecing - Jan 2011 I ask for div - Jan 2012 Div papers filed - Mar 2012 I move out - July 2012 Divorce final - Nov 7, 2012