wife wants her space, doesnt know who she is

[25yearsmlc]

I wrote two long detailed posts and the only thing remotely resembling a response was about your job search...though the words "ha ha" are an odd choice to me.

Please read what I wrote to you more carefully. I'd rather ask you to do that and see if something sinks in, than give up on you. But I won't waste much more time on detailed aimed comments if you're not someone who is able to take in new information. A lot of folks here are ripe for change and it is THOSE LBSers who have the highest chance of success in life and in marriage.

I don't know if you're ripe for change or ever will be. But let's try to really take in the info presented and process it so you DO something new and different.

B/c again, that is the ONLY way you'll get your wife back...if SHE believes things are going to be better. So far she sees you without work and....well, does she see you looking?

Did you really read my GAL list?

Take that in too. Ironically, it may even help you with a job search since GAL means meeting new people and networking is part of the job search.

Also it might be time for some more schooling or training for better more stable work...or join military reserves & get a pension later,

or even enlisting full time. In your shoes, I'd consider it strongly.


AS-thanks for the plug!