AS..thanks for the signature info. I have been meaning and wanting to do that!
Thanks for posting it, it helps me to remember who is who when I can read the sigs
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H met OW in March and has been off and on with her this whole time, but is now pretty hot and heavy with her.
I've never seen an on and off R that stood the test of time.
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Its hard to think that he will ever remember the emotional connection we once had, because he has rewritten our marriage to be awful and horrible.
There are a few WAW's that have posted here over the years. I remember one saying all she could remember about her M were terrible things, she literally could not think of a single good thing that had ever happened. Then she said the "fog lifted" and it happened practically overnight. Suddenly she couldn't remember anything but the good things about her M. So you never know what will happen. The human brain is an odd and complex thing.
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I deserve better treatment and I'm so sad and crying this afternoon because of the way he treats me. Couldn't he at least be somewhat nice?
Yes he could. I really don't have much sympathy for a scumbag that ditches his pregnant W for a fling and then treats her like dirt. He has serious problems and he will not be able to escape the kind of bad karma he's spreading around. But please understand, HE is the problem, not YOU.
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I asked this before but didnt get any answers...I just dont get the theory...if he has me leaving him alone and not bothering him, he has OW, he is seeing his kids regularly and they are being mostly nice to him, and he is getting all his emotional needs met by OW, what in the world will make him wake up or change his mind or see what he has lost?
What will make him wake up is when he realizes one day that he got everything he wanted and is STILL not happy. He can hardly keep blaming the unhappiness on you if you've gone dark and are not even in his life anymore. At that point he is going to have to face his demons. He will emerge a different person. Whether he wants to reconcile at that point is hard to say, but he may. But you may very well have moved on by then.
