Yes I think I just need to back off thinking about it...but in the meantime I think I screwed up thanksgiving!!! Good Grief!! here is the email I sent mil...Hi MIL! Thanks for the invitation...the girls are excited to come over; I will make sure they bring their aprons. I am planning on running the huffing for stuffing run but we will be available after that. You said" late afternoonish"...would that be around 1.30...Also the girls and I are planning to go swimming with some friends at Chico around 3:00ish..Please let me know what we can bring to contribute..Thanks again 7720...
here is the text I got from W... I am really diss apointed in you you knew I had plans on Thursday...Jerk
My response was I forgot and told MIL that we would be flexible...you must not have gotton that message...Truth is that I did not know when her party was I thought it was in the evening.......I am not sure why she has to have a private party on this day anyway; we had agreed with the girls counsler that we would keep the holidays the same for the sake of the girls....now I don't really want to bring them and have more stress for them...they are already stressed out...
