Thanks Bug - yeah - I always seem to end up here too but now I'm going to the DIY store and I'm getting me some real BIG boundaries. I haven't been good at investing in them before, always bought the cheap ones - they were made of feathers and built on sand as they say and just collapsed when H trod on them.
But these ones are going to be STRONG and RE-ENFORCED (they may even win an award!). He's not getting near me or my heart again without some proof he's genuinely interested in sorting this M and him Self out.
These boundaries are going to be SO BIG that he will need to be the BRAVEST man in the world, with the BIGGEST LADDER you ever did see and some really thick trousers to get over the anti-personnel wire.
Infact, I might just be building me a castle. How do you like that H? We can have his and hers LOL!!!
There. My imagination always make me feel better
Because you deserve someone who will put in the amount of effort, good for you. And listen, my switch has only been two weeks, but I have come so far( still a long way to go) and I realized that he hasn't moved at all. Not a bit. Not to look at anything in a different perspective. You have come so far and might I suggest Teflon? Requires much effort to scale