AS..thanks for the signature info. I have been meaning and wanting to do that!
H met OW in March and has been off and on with her this whole time, but is now pretty hot and heavy with her. Stays at her house a lot on weekends as of recently, but was asking to come home as early as 9 weeks ago. (but I dont believe he was really ready or wanting to) He moved out in Aug 12. I know this isnt long ago in the grand scheme of things, but it seems like its been forever for me. Seems like H and OW are just getting closer and spending more time together.
Its hard to think that he will ever remember the emotional connection we once had, because he has rewritten our marriage to be awful and horrible. He doesnt think he had a emotional connection like does with OW. He even told me once that we never had a honeymoon phase like I guess they do.
He emailed me back today about the money and mentioned that he knew I had an iphone and how "classy" I was to get a great phone but not want to pay for our kids expensive phones.
Nothing but mean and negative all the time. He would never have treated me so badly. He just thinks that everything he is feeling is at the hands and mind of me. (He actually said that to me) I deserve better treatment and I'm so sad and crying this afternoon because of the way he treats me. Couldn't he at least be somewhat nice?
I asked this before but didnt get any answers...I just dont get the theory...if he has me leaving him alone and not bothering him, he has OW, he is seeing his kids regularly and they are being mostly nice to him, and he is getting all his emotional needs met by OW, what in the world will make him wake up or change his mind or see what he has lost?
I have read that the infatuation can turn to real love...especially if they only have each other and are meeting all each others needs:(
Thanks for the advice on anniversary...Dont think that its a good idea for my to even acknowledge it at this point in our relationship:( 15 years...and its all down the drain for some OW:(
M:36 H:36 D14, D11, Baby due in March M:15 T:18 Met OW: 3/12 H Moved out: 8/12 Legal Sep: 11/5/12
