I forgot to add- I find it ironic that he is the cheater but he "can't trust me" Ha! When that came out of his mouth I just said I am sorry you feel that way. I am not your enemy and never said another word. I was thinking he had gone to a cult or something and been brainwashed. It's almost scary how some of what he says is so incongruent to how things are.
Even S14 said - Dada (his pet name for H since he was a baby) believes things are one way but they aren't that way. It's a lie in his head. It's sad.
What do I even say to him? No idea. Better not to say anything I think.
Nothing- zippo. Keep your mouth shut. He brings it up again, just say I can understand why you would feel that way. And leave, change subject etc.
Mine doesn't trust me either. That is quite precious. I just said "well, then I will let actions speak louder than words". Mine also gave reason for leaving and not trying as "life is too short..." Is there a phrase book I am unaware of lol?
