Busting, I agree that the massage was a great idea. It'll be good for you to get out. Dubai. Wow. Someday I'd like to go there, though not for a doctor's appointment :-)

Now, does your H ever mention the OW? I might be forgetting info from your previous posts, but how long has this been going on? Where did he meet this woman? Just trying to gather some info to see if I can help more.