She wants to go to my family's functions, like Thanksgiving and Christmas. It could be just for our sons sake. Should I let her go to those functions?
It depends, how do y'all get along? If you fight a lot it'll just make everyone miserable.
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Should I go out with her on weekends? Or watch tv with her and my son?
Your sig says your separated, is that the case? If so, why would you want to go out with her or hang around and watch TV? She'll never learn to miss you if you're around each other all the time.
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Should I still be her best friend?
DR says yes, but most people around here say no. It's hard to detach and still be her best friend. And as mentioned above, she'll never learn to miss you if you're best buds.
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I really feel like just cutting off all the seeing her and talking to her as I can.
Then go with your instincts. Try it and monitor the results.
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I want to just focus on my life and spend as little time with her as possible.
