First of all, it would help if you stopped referring to your son in the third person. He is your son whether you get back together or not. Start referring him with the respect he deserves.

Next, you're allowing your own biases to interfere with your son's well being which is where many of the resentments from your W stemmed from.

I mean, if you're criticizing his education fund, then you have alot to learn.

Did you really read DR?

Contrary to what you believe, it doesn't matter if you're together or apart in order for DB to work. It's what you do in the time together that counts.

M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER