W moved out in July for 1 week and magically became the model W/M after moving back in.
Wow, wouldn't it be great if that's what always happened when spouses walk, LOL! Did she ever tell you what happened in that week that turned her around?
Quote:
Day to day things are mostly awesome....lots of time together, as family and one on one, great sex life, just booked a family cruise vacation for Dec, etc. However, W refuses to commit to M, or work on any issues....the "heavy lifting" I referred to in my title. At the first sign of conflict, W runs straight to "I want a D."
So bizarre. That's similar to my W, after BD but before she left we were working on things- getting along fantastic, great sex (according to her), fun activities both together and with the kids. But she kept saying over and over again that she saw no future in our M and she needed to leave. Baffling.
Quote:
I assume I will get them during the next argument (so I plan on not having one! lol)
Haha! Or just make sure the argument isn't at home
