I think you are handling yourself incredibly well despite H's nonsense. Sometimes, there just are no answers to these incredibly mind-boggling actions and words.
Thinking of you....
TPS Me: 44 H: 42 M14 T17 S10 D7 10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month 21/04/12 H is 'DONE' 04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010) July '14 H ends affair May '15 H moves back home