Now, I appreciate all the advice saying I have to be patient, but in comparison to the offence, the punishment is too heavy.
I certainly agree. None of us deserve all the grief and misery our spouses are putting us through. We each have to decide if DB'ing is worth the effort to -maybe- save our M. Would be nice (and easier) if we knew we would eventually save our M's for sure, but we don't know that.
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I arrived in the country right after (remember I'm French) and we've been separated for 5 months!
5 months is a long time to be sure. But reconciliation rarely happens in that time frame.
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Her being mad and wanting D is not proportional to my "misbehaviour". I asked for forgiveness, which she says she has granted, and I changed my ways, but then, what else is she waiting for for Pete's sake?
She's still on a journey and hasn't reached the end yet.
