Originally Posted By: Grateful
I have to say that I am proud of Ed for standing this long. Wedding vows say "til death do us part."


Thank you Grateful.

That's what i thought when she and i got married too, but doesn't everyone in the beginning?

Thanks for posting on my thread. Which one is yours? You post on a wide variety here. I would like to get to know your sitch.

Leo, thanks. I know i have turned into a doormat in the past 3 years and that stops.

But, when it comes to visitation, our son needs to have her on his life. I did not allow the overnight visit due to my concerns the 1 time she requested it, due to how inconsistent she was and still is.

I may check out Dobsons book, but it differs from DBing i have read. I still want to follow the DB techniques.

Ed


Me, 55 W, 36
T, 10 yrs
S-9
M, 8 yrs
1st D-Day, 9-27-2009, With 1st bf, ea/pa
2nd D-Day, 12-5-2009, With her best friends bf, ea/pa
W, AA relapse early 2009-Current
W moved out 2-16-2012
New OM 5-2012