Maybe some of them. I would tell her where and when so long as she keeps giving the same courtesy.
Frankly, I am more concerned at all the drinking she seems to be doing. Also, does she drive herself? For someone who is so concerned about S welfare she sure doesn't seem to be concerned in the evenings when she wants to go out. Not saying that she isn't allowed to do that sort of thing but it seems very frequent.
She doesn't drive herself. Usually someone drops her off at the house or she stays out late to "sober up."
I'm very concerned about her constant drinking. She's escaping her life by drinking. She gets immediate pleasure by drinking. I wish there were something I could do... but alas, it's something she must go through on her own.
M34 W35 S5 S2 T10 M6 on/off over the years including her A Recently- Nov 2015 bomb Nov 2015-Feb 2016 Reconciling Feb bomb March-April Reconciling May - bomb Mid-May I tell her I'm done