Put your hands up; it's a wild ride

[leopoldstotch]

SG my W doesn't wear her rings at all. She took them off about a year ago. Like you it bothered me at first but after some time it didn't. Look at like this bud. You are still married your W is still in the house you two share the same bed she opens up to you and she still touches you so don't focus on the negatives. Many people here would love to be in your position.

My W and I haven't ML in a year and at first it killed me but after a few months I got used to it and now Im not focused on that at all. Heck you and your W still hang out at places occasionally. So you see that's another positive. I bet if you sat down and wrote a list of positives and negatives you would see the positive things outweigh the negative things.

I know you hate the uncertainty we all do but I bet if you turn your attention to the good going on and build on them things will work out. I really believe you can do this she has not completely shut you out. Create a little mystery about yourself that will make her wonder about you it even says so in DR. I've told you before and I still believe your W is checking to see if YOU are still interested in her.

I haven't read many stories on here where the WAS was asking how the LBS was feeling towards them.