Originally Posted By: labug
Maybe I am wrong but I was glad we weren't here last night. Not because it would have hurt him but the fact that actually GAL includes the kids too. Sort of like - see what you are missing out on?

If you're only doing it to get reaction, it won't be sustainable because if you don't get a reaction, you won't do it.



Nope that wasn't it at all. Actually, I have been frustrated at times because when he calls we grab the phone and are too eager. If that makes sense? Same with myself. I have never let it just go to voicemail. So far, generally speaking, when he wanted to talk or visit we always have made ourselves available EVEN IF we have been busy. I guess I feel like he hasn't really had many opportunities to miss us.
Or it seems like he hasn't.