Reading over my post from last month, I can see that there's still some (for lack of a better word) "attachment."

Last week at mass after communion I was praying and got the distinct impresssion that in spite of XW warming up a little bit, I still need to put distance between us.

Just from reading my last post I can see why. The word I remember clearly is "distance." Not sure how that all works being roommates and all, but I think I'll begin with controlling my own thoughts and daydreams and go from there.


Me 53 XW 50
M 18 Years +2
S14 D19
Bomb 10-24-10
Served 1-27-11
Mediate 4-21-11
Civil D Final 6-2-11
No church anullment
"A man is not finished when he is defeated, he is finished when he quits."