In crisis -BIG MESS-help

[Brahmin]

EI,

You can only own and fix your part.

I'll be perfectly honest with you, it does concern me that you aren't at least entertaining the idea of seeking help. For arguments sake, what if your W

agreed to work things out. What do you plan on doing to ensure or at least attempt to not fall in to old toxic patterns?

[quote]What do you mean seeking for help, like IC, what else, she need to show signs of working things, the signs I got is, papers to plan D. I know that is not end all, but tell me, how do I see anything bright except my son and for his sake..

Even if you have fixed everything, what are you striving to improve? We all have areas that need improvement. It is a never ending processs

have identified some area that I am working, first to come out of this shock and then think through what else my options are... My goal with a time frame,