3 Years after D-Day, part 2. Separated 9 Months.

[Am I Too Late]

Question regarding what i asked in my last post.

Do i point out to her the facts about how many visits she has missed to see our S?

5 1/2 hours after i sent her a message, she replied.....

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Ok I will get him wednes. Why do u need to take him to appointment? I can can him early. And I think Eddie will benefit from regular scheduled visits with me that are set in stone. Ok will try to call again tomorrow. Wish you had called back so I could say night to Eddie but thank you for update on school.
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She now points out that our S would benefit with regularly scheduled visits.

I will reply tomorrow, but do i point out how many visit opportunities she has excused herself from for one reason or another? I have previously set my foot down and told her that the most important thing our S needs is consistency.


Leo, the law would say she has a right to equitable visitation as long as his best interests were considered, regardless if she goes out drinking when S is not with her, as long as he is not directly affected by it and her having a boyfriend is not material. As long as any potential negative behaviors are not done in his presence.

My hope, first and foremost is to get my life back, which includes operating my business again and digging out of debt, along with the obvious welfare of our son. Along with that, i Pray for her to find the gift of sobriety once again.

If, and that is a big if, she ever does, then and only then could i hope that she could find the person she formally was.

I am working on me though. Who knows where my mind will be about this sitch after i get better at detachment and GAL.

Ed