well sent IL a nice email thanking them for the invitation and that we would love to come over...told them I would be running a race early in the morning and Daughters and I would be available after that...she said in her invation late afternoonish...so I said we would be going to the hot springs around 3ish with some friends so I would have an out if things got uncomfortable or if W didn't show up till much later. W is having a party for her friends....one is a guy that is there all the time mostly when the kids are not there...he is just a friend but it still makes me a bit uncomfortable. I think that is where most of my resentment lies but I am just going to ignore it and move on...So I am just going to go over there and be as positive and helpful as I can and then leave before I am asked to...I think W was hoping for a 4 o clock dinner but it is not up to her and knowing how she works if she says 4 she will be there at 5 and I would be sitting there with FIL watching the awkward clock tick...I think three or four hours over there is plenty....
