OMG the difference was NIGHT AND DAY!! I cannot even begin to tell you. Yes he was the man I first met. Kind, patient, calm, generally more organized. Just really a joy to be around. However, once he came off the meds, he has refused them since then.
Every single person we know remarked on what a difference it made. That is one of the things that perplexes me. That guy I first met is the H his XW/OW knew. I cannot imagine what she is going to think when the real H gets over the euphoria. I think as I said before that things will get very very interesting.
