5 months in

[Big Bruce]

Tessa,
Hey, we're here with you. Don't give up, okay?
I hope you started withdrawing the easy sex for your H. He needs to begin respecting you before loving you.
H needs to see you as something differently than a pain in the neck, but oh well, she does IT.

You are more than that. Start being someone I or any man would fall in love with : nice but firm, independent yet easy to get along with, etc... you know the rest I'm sure.
Not that boring, whiny, old usual wife that I'm going to get rid of but in the meantime let-me-f-her-a-bit-more-while-I'm-at-it.
Do you understand? Do you get what I'm talking about?

Is your H a believer as well? Keep praying, it works, things will turn around, slowly, but they will eventually.
Cheers,