So since there doesn't seem to be much movement of my wife towards me I have decided to work towards moving on/dropping the rope. As I have said before, and as Sandi has reinforced in me, I believe it will only be then that I may see some sort of chance again. I have not lost hope, nor will I ever. I still believe that someday I will have another chance with my w, and my family will be whole again. This will probably be my last post for awhile, as it seems the more time I spend on here the more I focus on my w.
Eyes, That sounds so wise and so strong. I am using your words as motivation to do the same myself. I have been toiling away, covertly pursuing for too long.
My stbx is desperate for space from me. Time i took notice and acted appropriately.
