3 Years after D-Day, part 2. Separated 9 Months.

[leopoldstotch]

Ed as far as I know there aren't any threads with someone waiting as long as you in this sitch. I have to ask why you so desperately want to R with someone who is so damaged and has no regards for you or her own S. I'm sorry to be harsh but I don't think its getting through to you. What is there to salvage? She's had multiple OMs is living with one now. She has excuse after excuse for not seeing her S. I've said this to you before and its the last time I'm gonna say it. You are enabling her. She needs to suffer the consequences for her actions but you keep letting her walk all over you. Do you respect yourself? I don't think you do otherwise you wouldn't tolerate her behaviour especially towards your S.

Man up and tell her she needs to pay support for HER S its her duty and obligation and its time she's told this. I wouldn't pull any punches with her at all but you probably will Ed because you think you NEED her to survive. Three years and you are still anxiously awaiting her return. Do you even realize just how much work she truly needs? You need to ask yourself why you want to get back with someone who is so self absorbed. You deserve better and your S deserves better. If it were me play time for her would be over. Is this how you want to spend the rest of your life? It sure seems that way to me. Think hard Ed Sorry but you really need this 2x4